AUTOBIOGRAPHIES OF REGRETS: Mechanism And Process Of Infidelities Et Al And Science Of Post-Facto Guilt!

Sanity and symmetry of sensitivity and righteous appropriateness is very often a post-facto attainment. This is the energy of autobiographies of regrets and realizations. Things happen and we behave/act in a way and then, it is available only for retrospection that oh! That could have been and should have been done better this way. I could and should have approached it that way! I could and should have avoided this and that…

Everything has a mechanism, regrets have too. All stupidities and instant idiosyncrasies have a mechanism. Nothing can escape the inevitability of a definitive mechanism of physics, even though, in many cases, the mechanism and processes are so complex and multidimensional that we think, they pop out of nowhere. It never…

The core mechanism of regretful action and behavior is our own body-mind mechanism. We have a body and mind and they have a mechanism. We are instinctively animalistic in behavior. Our instincts are sort of auto-behavior and they happen, before we know, they have happened. The element of control and decision of righteousness and social appropriateness come only later, when eventualities happen…

Research accepts, 2/3^rd of infidelities, especially by men happen, before people even register what they are doing. Over 60-70 of infidelities are usually one or two night stand. The ‘culprits’ admit, it happens and only later they feel this should not have happened. Only a small percent of people, both men and women are into habitual or conscious infidelities…

Psychologists say, most extra marriage affairs or infidelity happen not primarily because of the desire or pre-planned move of the people to have it but mostly by the ‘easy availability’ of frivolous sex and indecisive intimacies. Over 90% of extra-marital sex or intimacy happens between people who are ‘friendly’ and in a place ‘amicable’ for such happening. That is why, office sex, colleague intimacy, business trip infidelities and intra-family cheatings constitute major chunk of infidelity domain…

… majority of people would love to pick up and put in pocket a hundred rupee note lying on the road… most people over-buy things, when there is a ‘free-offer’…! Anyway, it is pragmatism of populist intelligence to overeat first and then regret later, when luscious food is available free in other’s marriage party… begani shaadi ho aur Abdullah deewana na ho…!

Science accepts, instincts and drives of humanity are so powerful that they confuse the expressions of human mind. Often, errors of judgment happen and they are seldom consciously committed. However, in contemporary times, as people are more in drift and laced with precarious attitudes, they have become master craft-persons in validating their regrets. Super egos lose celebrity status if regret is allowed an easy ticket…

This is the energy of the autobiographies of regrets and post facto retrospective realizations. The mechanism behind it is our own body-mind mechanism and process.

The simple rule of physics that must translate into prudence is –

If we cannot rise above and aloof of our own consciousness and cognition; we continue to be slaves of our own instincts and drives. This is being animalistic – driven by milieus and base instincts and drives. To be human is to know and rise above the mechanism of regrets. If not, regrets are there for the end of life biographies…!

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